Musings On Country Life

Several months ago, we moved out to the country. Our home sits on 14 beautiful acres overlooking a river. Is this heaven or hell? As we adapt to country life, I find I need a creative outlet to share the trials and tribulations, as well as the joys of country life.

Ahh . . . . Country Life!

Friday, February 3, 2012

Off Road

Years ago, I remember a conversation in the car with my 4 year old son as he asked his father, “Daddy? How come you don’t drive in the grass like Mommy does?” My husband burst into laughter as I alternately glared at him and then my son. He patiently explained that people are not supposed to drive in the grass and that possibly I needed more practice. It turns out that I was practicing for future life experience. (Shows him!)

Our driveway is long and narrow as it winds up the hill to our home. It includes two sharp right-angled turns as well as a horse-shoe turn. It wasn’t made with visitors in mind. Inevitably, friends, delivery men and large trucks run off the side and we spend the spring filling in ruts. Visitors glance with fear in their eyes at the long backup required to turn around at the shop. They often comment that they are afraid they will drive in the grass. I just respond, “Don’t worry about it. Everyone drives in the grass up here.”

Gone are the days of the manicured lawn. After two years of gathering dust, we gave our edger to our son. Now, when we need to load firewood or debris, we just drive the truck, tractor or Kubota through the lawn to where we need it. It offers a certain amount of freedom that is refreshing. No more rules, no more pampering the lawn. Who says that driving on the grass will kill it? If driving on your lawn kills your grass, I think you need tougher grass! My only concern is that when I visit my city friends, I will forget my manners and park two wheels up on the curb on their lawn and they will stop inviting me over.

2 comments:

  1. "Who says that driving on the grass will kill it? If driving on your lawn kills your grass, I think you need tougher grass!" <That is brilliant.

    I think that the problem in our country is that we have coddled out lawns for way too long. They have become weak, lazy, and unable to take even the slightest wear or tear. Do you think that driving on the grass would kill it, in China? No, of course not, their communist grass is tough. The green vistas on the outskirts of Guangxi mock our sissy yards.

    Well done, Kathy, you are fighting the good fight, and I'm sure your lawn appreciates it.

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  2. I think your comments about coddling our grass are well founded. Have you ever tried to keep grass out of a flower bed? If my hair grew half as fast as my grass does, my hair stylist would be rich. I think about fertilizing it, but I can hardly keep up with the four hours of mowing now, so why would I want to encourage it to grow? The moles do a pretty good job of aerating the lawn, and weeds help fill in the bare spots. To think I use to pay someone to come out five times a year to treat my old lawn.

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